mind games

July 10, 2008

Last night I sat down with my receipts and added up my trip costs, balanced my checkbook, and made a plan for today’s paycheck.  Everything is doing just fine!  I have a tendency to get a little nervous when I haven’t crunched my numbers in a few too many days, so I was nervous about how my balance would come out when I finally sat down at the table with the receipts.

I did spend $50 dollars more than I had planned on spending on the trip - it was the second tour on my New Orleans trip that put me over the edge.  But, seeing as how I left myself a buffer in my general spending account, that extra $50 didn’t put me in the poorhouse.  In fact, so far as paying bills and saving for the house are concerned, I’m not even breaking my stride.  But when I was on the trip, away from home, not checking my bank balances on the internet, and not sitting still long enough to go through my receipts, I was dependent on a loose tally I was keeping in my head.  I thought I was doing worse than I actually was, and that kept me just scared enough to keep from spending too much more money when I thought I was running low.  There’s still some cash in my trip spending account.

I am not advocating this approach to personal finance.  I think that it’s better when someone knows what their balances actually are so that they can make informed spending/cash flow decisions.  Mind games are not the way to plan.  But I recognize that there are certain circumstances (like when someone is traveling) that make it less likely that someone will keep up with every penny, even though they may find themselves in decision-making positions.  I think it’s better, when your information is limited, to err on the side of caution instead of throwing caution to the wind and spending too much.

Anyway, I’m back on the grind.  I’ve still got a house to save for.  I still haven’t invested my Sharebuilder money. And, I need to figure out what purpose I want to bestow on the balance left in my New Orleans spending account.  Perhaps it should be the seed money for Christmas?  It’s about that time to start saving if I don’t want to go into debt around the time of the holidays…  I’ll keep thinking about it.

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  1. I’m playing a mind game right now with myself. I have a budget for my house decor/furniture etc. and I have yet to sit down and add up just how much I have spent to date.. I need to do this ASAP.

    I know the feeling!

    Comment by S23 — July 10, 2008 @ 10:31 am

  2. Seriously, I could have written your second paragraph word for word. My laptop recently went kaptuz…no so bad since I have a back up hard drive…but I am doing the same thing…mentally adding everything up…being super stingy

    Comment by BEN — July 11, 2008 @ 5:06 pm

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